It’s no secret that threesomes are a popular sexual fantasy. Similar to years before, Pornhub listed threesome porn as one of its top category searches for 2019. According to a survey of 4,000+ people, threesomes are the most popular fantasy. A love of threesomes isn’t anything new. Sexy triads can be found in vintage porn as early as the 1920s.
Threesome porn vs. bisexual porn
Threeway porn typically falls under two different labels. Female/female/male (FFM) and even girl-on-girl threesomes are labeled “threesome porn”. The term is commonplace on mainstream sites.
Male/male/female (MMF) porn is called “bisexual porn”. Both terms are almost equally searched for, but MMF threesomes are less likely found on mainstream studio sites.
The stigmatization of bisexual porn for men
Wolf Hudson, AKA the King of Bi Porn, lays out the landscape of bisexual porn on the Pornhub Podcast. He tells host Asa Akira that a lot of female stars are into working with bi guys, but their agents won’t allow it.
Performers are led to believe that working with bi men will ruin their careers and reputations. He asserts that many agencies view bisexual men as an HIV liability. But if the risk of HIV sounds threatening to the porn industry, it may be time to update your knowledge.
Thanks to medical advances and regular health care, “most men and women who live with HIV live a very healthy life… so much so they’re undetectable, which means zero, and I will repeat, ZERO chance of transmission”, Hudson explains. If an HIV-negative performer wants to proactively avoid contracting the virus, they can also take PrEP, which effectively blocks the enzyme that would allow HIV to spread throughout the body.
Industry standards require that all performers provide recent, negative STI screening results before every film shoot. With so many thorough precautionary measures observed, why do bi guys still get a bad rap? Maybe perpetuating a fear of HIV is a way to disguise homophobia as a sexual health issue.
The invisibility of bisexual women queer threesomes
The industry’s language surrounding threesomes doesn’t just negatively effect the gentlemen. Using “bisexual” and “threesome” so exclusively erases the existence of bi women, queer, and trans performers.
When we detach the word “bisexual” from female and queer performers, we imply that their sexuality is just performative pleasure for straight, cis men. This may not be directly harmful to the stars we’re misidentifying, but it contributes to socially pervasive attitudes that can be internalized by bisexual girls.
As with any queer identity, visibility is the key to acceptance, from society and from ourselves. Acceptance of our sexuality shouldn’t come exclusively from porn. But seeing ourselves and others reflected accurately in mainstream pleasure is empowering!
Where to watch all kinds of threesome porn
Adult Time
Adult Time is well on its way to becoming a household name in streaming as “the Netflix of porn”. The site partners with major studios and puts their films into an easy-to-navigate interface. You can search for smut by category, performer, or studio. There are also some incredible original films and some binge-worthy series.
Adult Time’s diversity in studio partnerships also means more diversity in bodies and identities. All of the site’s bisexual porn is made almost exclusively by one studio, Devil’s Film. While Devil’s library offers a decent selection, it’s still sadly disproportionate to the bi-lady content offered. But studios like Burning Angel, Vivid, and Girlsway offer quality FFM, FFF, and trans threesome content worth checking out.
Lust Cinema
Erika Lust has created an empire of high-quality sex films that are uniquely cinematic and inclusive. In addition to directing her own films, she collects works by other directors with a similar artistic vision. Lust clearly puts a strong emphasis on authentically pleasurable sex, which makes for steamy watching. Featuring all gender configurations and body styles, these threesomes should be watched in a theater. She also casts superstar performers; cruising her catalogue, you’ll see renowned creators like Natalie Mars, Mickey Mod, Casey Calvert, and so many more.
Lust’s film network includes three different sites. Lust Cinema collects original films and series along with content by studios like JoyBear, Adam & Eve, and Wicked Pictures. Else Cinema specializes in softcore porn, emphasizing softer, more sensual narratives. Original series XConfessions features short films inspired by confessions submitted anonymously by viewers.
Membership costs to each site vary, but Lust Cinema costs more. A Lust Cinema login grants you access to Else Cinema, and you can add an XConfessions membership for $2.95/mo. If you’re not exclusively into secret smut or soft-core, the Lust Cinema bundle is a steal.
| 1 month | $34.95 |
| 3 months | $65.95 |
| 12 months | $139.95 |
Bellesa
Bellesa seeks to shift portrayals of women “from objects of conquest to the subjects of their own pleasure”. Great starter ideology for a porn site, yeah? The about page lays out its standards for creating an environment of support for its performers. The casting process puts a heavy emphasis on chemistry, consent, and real orgasms.
That having been said, a site that boasts sex-positive porn for women needs some plot-line house cleaning. In “Rules are Made to be Broken,” a couple lays down their ground rules before a ménage à trois. When things get hot and heavy, the boyfriend immediately renegotiates the terms during sex. If that’s not bad enough, he argues with his girlfriend when she tries to hold her boundary. Everybody finishes the scene and I grow a new patch of grey hair.
Bellesa Films hosts exclusive FFM and FFF films for a monthly fee, but the brand began by collecting free, female friendly porn clips. Bellesa.co now hosts clips from partnering studios, feminist blog content, erotica, and an online sex toy store. Paying for porn is ideal, but previewing clips is a great way to try before you buy.
ManyVids
ManyVids hosts videos and content made by the performers themselves. This website does it all: videos, photosets, live cams, panties, and options to directly support performers’ personally through gift or tip. Since the site was founded by a sex worker, it holds itself to a higher standard than most mainstream tube sites, actually screening for pirated content. This leaves you free to browse its breadth of group sex videos with a light conscience.
ManyVids performers range in diversity due to its user-submitted content, and the videos often strike a beautiful balance between professional skill by performers and amateur reality vibes. Most of the videos are clearly made in users’ homes rather than in a studio, so there’s authenticity present throughout the site. Performer Natalie Mars gives us a peek into her own weekend for-funsies threesome in The Red Room, a great example of the site’s “bonus material” feel. ManyVids is also much tidier and easier to navigate than, say, PornHub or other porn sites hosting user-submitted videos.
And while the price ranges for custom video content vary (the pay scale options under the filter search option slides from $3.99-$999), there is free content available designated by the performers themselves.
PinkLabel.tv
PinkLabel.tv is an abundant medley of pornographic content that is also organized similarly to Netflix, but pinker. Films are categorized by genre, but specific searches are available, too. The variation in content, genders, and bodies shown on PinkLabelTV is virtually endless: these are real-ass people having real-ass sex, and that sex includes real, multifaceted representations of threesomes like ‘Backstage Pass’ or episodes of Crashpad Series.
Each video’s description includes a curator’s note at the bottom that informs viewers that all selections are specifically chosen with the intent to “expand our notions of adult film.” Every film on the site has an idiosyncratic charm, as if you were watching your porn in an art garage.
Naughty America
Regardless of what new technology the online porn scene is buzzing about today, chances are Naughty America has a finger in it. Starting with a 4K standard for all productions, the team behind this porn site wants you to get the up-close and personal experience with it’s big-name star performers. Membership to the site includes both standard and VR scenes, and premium users can download scenes as well. The site is uploading new content daily, giving users thousands of scenes to choose from.
The site falls in line with so much mainstream porn in the disclusion of body diversity, but moves away from many popular porn site category pages. Naughty America favors its own series instead: original genre productions like 2 Chicks Same Time. None of these original offerings are identity-based, making it a little more comfortable for the conscious porn consumer to peruse, although there are still some problematic category tags on each individual video.
Vixen
Vixen films are all about folding you into the fantasy. Featuring the most exotic locations and dreamy escapist narratives in 4K, the site caters to those who want to get away AND get off. The site updates every 5 days, with its sleek build and intuitive navigation, you won’t have to click in circles to find something steamy if you’re looking for threesomes.
It’s not all palm trees and mai-tais for everyone, though. This nude-beach vacation house of porn only seems to feature thin and conventionally-attractive cis-gendered performers. Half the fun in a threesome is variety, and Vixen’s tripods could stand to get on-board with that concept.
Pornhub Premium
Look, I hate recommending free porn sites, so I’m all for finding Pornhub alternatives. Free sites often post pirated content, meaning the stars and production crew don’t get paid for their work.
Still, Pornhub is the most well-known adult entertainment site. It’s still a beneficial place for amateur sex stars to post their own work and make a name for themselves. As of December 2020, users can now only watch content made by verified users. Subscribing to premium provides these models with a higher payout-per-view rate.Premium or not, finding threesome porn that suit you may take some time. PornHub Premium is a thrift store for porn; you have to sift through a lot of junk if you want to find a gem.
Brazzers
The gonzo stylings at Brazzers are an archetypical snapshot of mainstream threesome sex videos. Its use of comical porn tropes and flimsy plot lines mean it’s more adult entertainment than IRL sex. The performers have similar body styles, and the assholes are all bleached and hairless. HD-quality, content quantity, and a-list stars are Brazzers’ strengths.
Both the site and its films are clean and polished. Navigating the site and accessing free downloads is straightforward. It’s your destination for anal porn if you’re looking for star power, meta jokes, and sexual sacrifice of realism.
Porn isn’t an illustration of our social perceptions of sexuality. It is fair, however, to consider it in the context of a broader social landscape. Whether or not the language used to describe porn influences the viewer, in this case, it also effects performers’ wellbeing.
Purposely denying work opportunities based on antiquated health information seems unethical. Mislabeling or looking down on bisexual porn robs everyone of seeking pleasure in a way that feels authentic to them.
Either way you cut it, excluding any group from bisexuality takes all the fun out of sexuality. It’s like serving PB&J without the peanut butter OR the jelly. Major porn sites and agencies should support bisexuals of all genders being proudly bisexual. Otherwise, they should just sit quietly in the corner and enjoy their dry bread.
