When it comes to building your perfect playspace, it’s vital that you design it with the right bondage gear and bondage accessories. But what constitutes as the “right” restraint? That’s easy. Any body-safe device that fits both your and/or your partner’s needs is going to be the correct choice.
However, to find the right bondage gear, you’ll need to be familiar with your options. And contrary to what Christian Grey would like you to believe, you do have options. So, while we’re busy busting bad BDSM behavior, I’d like to take this opportunity to educate you all on the three steps that make up a scene.
- Negotiation: Regardless of how long you’ve known your partner(s) or how experienced you think you are, before you do anything, the two (or more) of you must discuss a few key things. Like what your expectations are, what you want to get out of this experience, what your limitations are, the safewords, how you want to go about aftercare etc.
- Play: This is the part where you enact the previously agreed upon fantasy.
- Aftercare: Post coitus care is essential for maintaining a healthy kink relationship. And depending upon the dynamics, aftercare can be practiced differently depending on people’s personal preferences. So to some, this may mean a lengthy discussion and tons of affection, while others may prefer to casually discuss the scene immediately afterward, and then again in the days or weeks that follow.
And now that I’ve briefed you on how to go about the process, we can move onto the really fun part … talking about sex toys!
The most popular bondage gear and bondage accessories for a DIY sex dungeon
1) The Obedience Extreme sex bench by Master Series ($382.11)
Capable of holding up to 400lbs, the Master Series sex bench is a dream when it comes to bondage gear. It provides padded comfort for extended play, and the ergonomic design allows for both anal and oral penetration. And since it’s made with leather, clean-up is a breeze!
2) UTIMI’s over-the-door sex swing ($22.99)
Designed with super strong nylon, this over-the-door sex swing is durable, fully adjustable, and will support up to 400lbs–making it a solid (and simple) alternative to mountable sex swings.
3) BindInclined’s high-quality restraints ($17.95)
Unlike other (cheaper) restraints, the bondage accessories designed by BindInclined are fully adjustable. So they won’t dig into your skin or cause any irritations. And they’re intended to work with any bed setup—meaning you won’t need a headboard to get them to work.
More favorites: HOT TIME Web Bed Bondage kit ($25) and LILER’s 7-piece belt combination restraints ($18)
4) These trusty nipple clamps ($9.99)
Nipple stimulation can just be a fun form of foreplay, or for some lucky folk may even lead to full-on completion. But no matter your end goal, every bedroom dungeon should be host to a set of nipple clamps with a spare vice. Why? Well, you can choose to use that vice south of the border or tug on it like a lead. No bondage gear collection is complete without a pair.
More favorites: Eastern Delights adjustable clamps ($11) and the Master Series Bondage Collar and Clamp set ($20)
5) This Japanese bondage rope ($8.19)
One of the most essential bondage accessories, bondage rope is available in a variety of materials, with some easier to use than others. Meaning, based on your skill level, technique, and desired result, the type of rope you need could vary. However, like most things in life, there’s a happy medium. This is basic bondage gear, recommended for everyone from beginners to experts.
More favorites: Doc Johnson Japanese Bondage Rope ($12) and Fetish Fantasy’s 200-ft Rope Bondage Kit ($37)
6) The Portable Bondage Board by STRICT ($182.03)
Using soft, durable padding, and 14 attachments any position is possible, so you’re bound to have a good time with this bondage equipment! Additionally, since it’s designed with PU leather you can wipe it down with a simple isopropyl alcohol solution for a pristine clean. It even folds away for simple storage.
7) KinkLab’s leather leash ($19.89)
Leashes hold a variety of purposes in the world of BDSM. More obviously they’re used to lead (either via collar or wrists), but they can also be used as a makeshift whip and tie.
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8) WETPIA’s multifunction sex stool ($65.98)
Just like every queen (or king) you too deserve a throne you can call your own – especially when you have royal duties like facesitting to attend to! And this multifunction sex chair will certainly do the trick. It features a detachable handle, as well as two “spring” straps to really get you bouncin’. It’s suitable for use both on and off the bed with anyone under 300 lbs. Not to mention, it’s the perfect bondage equipment for those with a spanking fetish.
9) This heavy-duty sex swing ($23.90)
To ensure your safety is a priority, Sexbaby designed this bondage equipment with the same ultra-durable material used to make parachutes. This way the only thing going up in the air is you (as opposed to your sex plans)!
More favorites: Wild S.E.X. Collection Spinning Sex Swing ($133)
10) FeiGu’s Gimp Mask ($22.59)
Whether you’re into roleplaying, leather, or just like to get creative with breathplay, FeiGu’s bondage hood has got you covered. It’s easily adjustable to fit any head size, and even features a zipper for added fun!
More favorites: The Master Series Disguise open-mouth hood ($20) and STRICT’s Leather Blindfold Headharness and Gag ($42)
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