It’s rare to find a sexual act that focuses on what some would call a “gender role reversal” become as mainstream as pegging porn. By mainstream, not only are we talking about something trending on your favorite porn sites and fetish forums, we’re talking about acts being portrayed in movies, TV shows, and pop culture. Thanks to the heavily referenced Broad City episode “Knockoffs,” pegging has only grown in pop culture popularity.
**Spoiler alert ahead but, seriously, this aired in 2015 so if you haven’t seen it then it’s really your own fault. But, we’ll still tell you how to stream Broad City on Comedy Central here.
In the episode, Abbi begins making out with her dream man, Neighbor Jeremy. What begins as a very cute interaction takes a turn when Abbi suggests to “switch positions.” Not understanding that she meant “let’s position our bodies differently,” Jeremy jumps up like an excited puppy dog, runs over to his drawers, hands his strap-on to Abbi, and drops down on all fours, exposing his anus. As funny as this scene is for fans and even first-time viewers, it presents a very interesting message: when the roles are unexpectedly reversed, people can get uncomfortable.
We’re here to tell you that while acts that involve gender role reversal might be slightly uncomfortable topics to broach, that doesn’t mean they’re abnormal desires or requests. More often than not, they lend themselves to more intimate experiences–especially when carried out with a partner you trust! So, whether you are the giver or the receiver, here are some facts about pegging and role reversal that will get you and your partner ready for action.
What is pegging?
If you’re wondering “What does pegging mean?” you’re not alone. Pegging is, historically, when a vagina-bearing person anally penetrates a penis-bearing person (when both parties are cisgender this is what we now refer to as ‘straight pegging’).
Pegging is not a new concept, but it has outgrown its heteronormative definition to become more inclusive (as gender becomes more widely recognized as a spectrum) and is now defined as when someone anally penetrates someone else using a strap-on for sexual gratification. This can mean employing the help of glass dildos, butt plugs for anal training, various types of strap-ons, and suction cup dildos regardless of whatever junk your body is naturally built with. So, yes, even if you have a penis there’s nothing stopping you from getting a little help from a friend (and by “friend,” we mean strap-on).
Sex acts that play on cisgender heteronormative gender role reversals are more often than not depicted through the BDSM community as a form of submission (see: “sissification“). For some cishet men, submitting to their female counterparts and allowing them to take control of their pleasure can be a tough idea to reckon with. The stigma surrounding anal sex is real, but sex therapist Liz Powell told Allure that “having a term for pegging can, in some ways, be helpful.” Powell explained that “a lot of cis straight men are interested in pegging because when they find out that there’s a term [for their desire] and that it’s common, they feel a lot more OK about wanting that.”
If you are in a situation where you would like to try straight pegging, or maybe your partner does, don’t let the learned roles of heterosexual relationships stop you! When executed correctly, it can be a super pleasurable experience for both parties involved. For the pegger, experiencing the power usually held by their male counterpart is an exhilarating feeling (not to mention incredibly gratifying thanks to strap-ons that are made with her pleasure in mind!). For the pegged, the stimulation of the prostate (the male g-spot) opens up a whole new avenue for pleasure–the orgasm that they’ll experience will be more intense since it won’t just be localized to the penis.
Keep in mind that the key to any successful kind of anal play is lube, and lots of it since the anus is not self-lubricating and its tissue can tear more easily than other genitalia. As most dildos are made from silicone, it’s important to choose a water-based lube so that the strap-on doesn’t get damaged. And blindly starting off with your strap-on is not recommended for beginners. Instead, work your way up to the toy by warming up the anal cavity using one finger, then two, and then a small butt plug to help train the area. It’s recommended that partners gradually work their way up to girthier toys and accessories in order to help prevent, fissures, irritation, pain, and potentially serious infections. You know what they say, slow and steady wins the prostate massage!
Communication between partners is also key! Allowing someone to explore your backdoor (especially in a submissive scenario) requires a lot of trust and talk. Your partner doesn’t know what feels good (or bad) unless you tell them, so please, for your own sake, speak up!
Pegging porn: where to find pegging videos online
Maybe you’re not into being pegged but get off on the idea of it, or maybe you just want to do some pornographic research behind the subject before you get your toes wet. Either way, completely valid! So without dragging this out any longer, here are some of the best porn sites for streaming pegging sex videos.
Burning Angel
This site is completely dedicated to alternative style and tattooed models and was founded by performer Joanna Angel. Inside, you’ll find all the tattooed goths, punks, emos, skaters, and more participating in all the femdom pegging sex you could imagine. If you’re familiar with the major porn streaming service AdultTime, then you’ll be happy to know that it acquired the Burning Angel studio, so along with your Burning Angel membership, you’ll have access to all 55,000+ videos in the AdultTime library. The Burning Angel site alone, however, is home to over 2000 videos and has been the recipient of multiple awards, including the 2020 winner for best action/thriller and best comedy sex scene. It also offers over 70 categories and over 100 models and pornstars including the likes of Abella Danger, Bree Daniels, and more. If you’ve been looking for true alt porn, what better place to look then the site that ushered in the movement!
Adult Time
Adult Time is basically the Netflix of both straight and gay pegging porn. With a robust list of over 200 channels, 50,000 episodes, daily uploads and updates, and over 30 awards won in 2020 alone, Adult Time snags the coveted “ultimate subscription platform” award from us. Expect to find fantastic, award-winning original content, as well as popular titles from studios like Vixen, xConfessions, FemJoy, and more. Want to spice it up? There’s a category for that. Want to slow it down to something a bit softer? There’s also a category for that. The possibilities are endless and so are the films! If we were going to be stranded on an island, Adult Time would be the first thing we’d take.
Evil Angel
Evil Angel’s motto is “life is too short for soft porn.” If that doesn’t tell you what to expect when entering this site, I don’t know what will. Hardcore and gonzo porn are this site’s specialty and, let me tell you, it’s done well. If you don’t believe me, maybe browsing through the award-winning list of full-length movies will sway you, or the perhaps fact that they’ve enlisted star directors like Rocco Sifredi, Jonni Darkko, and Proxy Paige will pique your interest. Either way, with Evil Angel’s library of over 18,000 hardcore videos, it seems like the best place to satisfy your pegging sex cravings.
Couples Cinema
Introducing porn into your relationship can be difficult. Couples Cinema takes the stress out by curating content from today’s top porn auteurs at a low price.
The difference between erotica and porn is often just pretension and intention. Take the artists making porn for couples at Couples Cinema. These creative adult films are made by the indie directors of adult cinema and put eroticism first. You can expect to see thoughtful camera angles and compelling emotional stories along with your orgies and cumshots.
This budget-priced site offers hundreds of films from a wide range of filmmakers. We suggest couples start with the aptly named Couple Fantasies films. It has the hottest performers, and its commitment to storytelling adds a relatable spark for new porn fans.
Kink.com
FemDom pegging lovers rejoice! This site will be your new go-to for all things sticky, fetish, and kink. This is the first of sites on the list to offer the option to filter by sexual orientation before you even enter the site, with the options to choose either straight, gay, or both. As you might have assumed from the name, Kink.com specializes in videos with hardcore sex, kinks, and fetishes. It hosts content from 30+ popular studios, totaling over 12,000 videos on the site. The most impressive thing about the videos, however, is that they all run at least 45 minutes long, with most running feature-length. It’s not normal to have that many videos available of that length if you think about it–it almost doubles the number of videos since you’re probably not going to watch a full-length film every time you go on the site. As well as providing an extensive library of content, Kink.com offers a cam site, VR site, and shop where you can purchase lingerie and toys ranging in value. This is truly your one-stop-shop for all things kink and fetish.
Wasteland BDSM
When you join Wasteland BDSM, you’re not just paying for another BDSM porn site, you’re paying for a community of like-minded people and access to the largest curation of BDSM movies and films. The Wasteland site is updated three times per week, and has been for 20 years. So its collection of over two million photos and 2,500 original movies is nothing to be overlooked. Some of the most popular categories on the site are Shibari, bondage, and other kinky fetishes. Although the site doesn’t allow for the most generous previews prior to memberships, it does offer free snippets of each video in two-minute-long scenes. Wasteland’s bonus features include access to live cam sites, podcasts, audiobooks, and kinky community. If you’re truly a BDSM fanatic, Wasteland BDSM is the site for you hands down.
FemDom Empire
If you’re looking for hardcore pegging porn videos with female doms, this is most definitely the site for you. FemDom makes the list because of its stunning variety of fetishes and kinks–from a human ashtray to body bag, oral servitude, and of course, edging and orgasm denial, this website has it all. Featuring award-winning performers and dommes like fan-favorite Riley Reid, Adriana Chechik, and Ariana Marie, you can be sure that FemDom will deliver on quality. Forget scouring the web for four-minute clips of your desired kink and subscribe to FemDom now!
Men Are Slaves
Men Are Slaves provides exclusive female domination videos to its community members. Unfortunately, while the videos look top-notch and the content is definitely a subs paradise, unlike other premium porn sites this one does not allow much in the name of sneak peeks. However, there are 1,800+ videos all in 4K HD with new content added weekly. An added bonus is the @MenAreSlaves Twitter account that updates with every new video and the occasional picture or gif of the site’s favorite dominatrix. So if you’re unsure about joining, maybe give the site’s social a follow and see if anything piques your interest.
It’s also worth noting that if watching isn’t enough for you, you can take the opportunity to become one of the site’s video performers! Applicants must be in the LA area and have prior experience as a “pain slave.”
House of Taboo
House of Taboo is all things kink and fetish, including pegging erotica. The site is uber refreshing (in a surprising way). There are no options to filter via category, or model specs, however, you can filter by recently uploaded, most popular, featured videos, and trending. What I love about this feature is that it really solidifies the site’s brand. There are no separate categories or delineating filters because it is a kink/fetish site and that’s all the content you’ll get! For those that might be a little less excited about that than I am, it warrants mentioning that there is an advanced search bar if you’re really in the mood for watching a specific kink or fetish. Because this site is so great at its craft, and uploads happen quite frequently, House of Taboo is one of the only sites to offer a lifetime membership. I would recommend taking advantage of the three day trial at 33 cents per day to determine if this is the site for you. If quality kink is your thing, and you’re tired of searching daily for the perfect pegging videos to satisfy your hunger, House of Taboo just might be for you.
xConfessions
Oh wow, xConfessions. Created by the boss director in porn herself, Erika Lust, this site is everything (gay) porn should be. A membership includes full access to all the content on the site, as well as the ability to anonymously post your own fantasies to an online wall with the lucky chance Erika herself will develop it into an erotic short film. Other membership perks include access to all anonymously posted confessions, unlimited streaming of over 150 films, and 10 free downloads per month. If you’ve been searching for quality films that showcase women’s pleasure in a sex-positive and sexually intelligent narrative created from relatable fantasies, look no further.
Lust Cinema
Lust Cinema is another beautiful creation from one of my favorite directors, Erika Lust. This site boasts a robust selection of top tier films and Lust Originals. Once you pop open a tab, a tantalizing slideshow of Lust Cinema’s newest features engulfs the screen to display tasteful and sensual covers. The homepage’s categories are split into the latest/newest additions, movies, short series, and original content. But with over 120 films to choose from it’s easy to lose your spot (which is why we recommend opening the films that pique your interest in a new tab). One of the best features on the site is the Netflix series style of porn that engages actors over a period of short films to further a storyline. If this realistic approach to porn sounds too good to be true, add on the two-for-one deal (that’s two months of premium for the price of one) happening now for new members and it’s almost like entering a fairy tale! Plus, you can feel good about your subscription since Lust Cinema is widely regarded as one of the best shops in the industry. It’s also known to fairly employ all of its performers and strive for equitable, ethical porn.
Erotic Films
We realize that a number of Erika Lust’s sites have already made the cut on this list, but she is just so damn good we had to include another one of her sites. If you’re looking for feature-length pegging sex films, Erotic Films is the number one site for you. All content is created in line with the Erika Lust vision (ethically produced and sex-positive content), and it runs on a subscription or pay-per-view basis which to me is the biggest draw of this site apart from the content itself. You’ll be able to try out some of the site’s gems while still paying your dues to the performers and directors, and without putting your budget in jeopardy. Pick a flick that piques your interest, buy it, watch it, gather your thoughts, and decide whether or not this is the site for you.
Members have access to over 500 films, which includes four new films every month that are produced by Erika and her league of star-studded directors including May Medeiros and Lidia Ravviso. Erotic Films is not a one-stop-shop porn site. Its content is comprised of carefully curated, feature-length, and beautifully produced content for the pegging lover.
CrashPadSeries
From Shine Houston comes the CrashPad Series, based on Houston’s cult classic original film The Crash Pad. This series follows the original plot with all episodes based in a San Francisco apartment that’s dedicated to hosting queer sex events. In my opinion, the best feature of this site is the content. In terms of diversity and real sex, you can’t do better than the CrashPad series. The models are natural beauties in all shapes and sizes from all backgrounds, sexual identities, orientations, and races. To top it all off, the chemistry is so intense it almost feels like an out of body experience. There are over 300 episodes in the series and each episode contains its own behind the scenes footage. Members also have access to the library of feature-length films, including the original CrashPad movie that inspired the series.
In an unprecedented move, CrashPad Series features a “hide” toggle, so before you go sifting through all the glorious porn, you can choose to filter and hide videos that contain scenes with ejaculation, consensual rough sex (including choking, flogging, spitting, slapping, etc.), fisting, BDSM, anal play (anal penetration, rimming, butt plugs, etc.), strap-ons and wearable vibrators.
PinkLabel.TV
PinkLabel has established itself as one of the heavy hitters in diverse porn. Created by Pink and White’s director and founder Shine Houston, the site hosts over 50 different indie porn studios (including Erica Lust, Pink and White Productions, and many more). PinkLabel’s communities are comprised of queer, trans, POC, seniors, and people with disabilities. The people behind the site understand porn markets go beyond the stereotypes and do their part in showcasing underrepresented groups in the adult film industry.
This ethical hosting site offers a premium membership featuring a curated collection of hundreds of titles, unlimited access to the films, and a permanent streaming library. All memberships help support PinkLabel’s own featured independent directors and studios. So if you’re looking to whet your appetite with various high-quality films showcasing diversity in porn made by and for minorities in the industry, PinkLabel is your best bet.
Lustery
Lustery is one of the only sites fully composed of amateur couples and user-submitted pegging porn. I know what you’re thinking: hours wasted searching through poorly lit, shaky camera videos. Don’t worry, while all videos are submitted and filmed by the couples, they’re all in HD and most have surprisingly great camera work. The real upside to this site, and what makes it one of my personal favorites, is getting to see real couples at work in their own homes. These videos are all so unique in the sense that there’s no set, no film crew, and tons of personality. The real-life couples have an intimacy on-screen that many producers have been unable to imitate.
Perks to being a member are….well, everything! Membership gets you access to the videos, couple bios, your own personalized hub, and the ability to submit your own videos and join the couples club. The site presents itself like no other porn site with a fresh color palette, sweet font, and easy to navigate tabs that will leave no video unturned. For the porn watcher who’s been searching for the realest of the real, or simply looking for completely different videos, Lustery is a must.
Pornhub
Let’s be real: with over 42 billion site visits in 2019, 90% of you porn viewers out there have probably reached orgasm on Pornhub at least once. You’re familiar with the layout and product offering, and you might be happy with it, but what if there was a way to get a lot more out of the experience? That’s what Pornhub Premium reaches for, and in my opinion, achieves. The best selling point right now is the site’s free trial membership (with the option to add Brazzers access for $1 per day). The homepage’s thumbnails offer sneak previews of thousands of HD, full-length videos from renowned studios like Vixen, Team Skeet, Nubile Films, Hentai.xxx, and more. On top of that, you’ll get access to Pornhub’s library of 30,000 full-length original films. Offering the widest variety of porn on the internet, its premium subscription does not disappoint.
YouPorn
What YouPorn does really well is organizing its collection of pegging porn. You’ll have no trouble sorting through the site’s categories, and you might be pleasantly surprised at the variety of unique titles. As for its content, you have the option to view clips, full-length films, live cams, and live sex in its tabs. Enjoy access to hundreds of channels like broke amateurs and bratty sis, as well as the site’s many featured and familiar performers. All videos are uploaded in HD and are available to download. In terms of free amateur facial porn sites, YouPorn has definitely mastered the subtleties of delivering a great experience during each visit.
xHamster
xHamster is like every other free pegging porn site on the web: lots of content updated regularly from hundreds of channels. Where the site stands out is through its inclusion of extra site features (like online dating and live cams). If you want to browse full-length films and exclusive content in 4K with no ads, xHamster is your site. Its Premium membership also offers unlimited downloads and the ability to interact with your performers in private shows and chats with Tokens. xHamster is a great site for people looking to explore all classifications of adult entertainment in one convenient subscription.
r/Pegging
r/Pegging is not so much about the forum advice (unlike r/StraightPegging), but more about showcasing Reddit users’ amateur pegging porn and personal strap-ons! If you’re looking for a place to show off your new dildo, or a hot pic of your pegging submissive (with their permission, of course), this is the subreddit for that. And if you’re looking for pegging porn without any of the FemDom stuff, be sure to check out r/pegging_unkinked.
r/StraightPegging
This subreddit is exceptional for people new to cisgender pegging. If you’re interested in learning about what strap-ons are best, what positions are best, or just have general questions about the subject, you should definitely visit r/StraightPegging for stories on first times, users’ trepidations, and tips and tricks to mastering the act! What better way to set yourself up for success than the advice of fellow peggers!
This subreddit is considered NSFW, so there are some amateur pegging stories available for your enjoyment, but it’s worth noting that this is more of an educational resource than a smut or pegging erotica sub.
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