At some point in our sexual lives, we all stumble across roleplay or fantasy porn. We quickly decide that pretending to be someone else in bed sounds pretty damn hot. A spicy little switch-up in the bedroom might do us all some good!
It’s one thing to fantasize about being locked up with your partner with nothing to do except explore each other. But actually being locked up with them?
Catching them doing human things, like picking their nose or getting stuck in their shirt? That’s a whole other ballgame.
Thankfully, we live in an era where missionary can get old quickly if you have a lot of it. Now, we’re not gonna sit here and tell you how to have sex, cause that’s just rude.
If you’ve been feeling the boredom that comes with a too-close-for-comfort living situation, we propose the bedroom cure-all: role-playing.
What is sexual roleplay?
Sex therapy specialist Caitlyn Caracciolo defined roleplaying as “Acting out of your own fantasies or a partner’s”. Roleplaying is a more general term that you’ll find in all kinds of porn genres.
Parody porn, cosplay porn, teacher porn, medical porn… we could go on forever. If you’ve ever dreamed about playing a particular role, someone has made fantasy porn about it.
When it comes to sexual roleplaying with someone you trust, your mind may jump to corny acting and cringy scripts. However when you truly let go of your sexual inhibitions, a world of possibilities open up to you.
While sex often seems to be all about reaching climax, roleplaying is all about stimulation, both mentally and physically.
Adult roleplaying can allow you to play out the tried-and-true fantasy that gets you off without a hitch. It can also help switch up the power dynamics in the bedroom!
Confessing your sex roleplay fantasy can build confidence and a bond of trust between you and your partner(s).
How do I have fantasy roleplay sex?
If you’re a roleplaying beginner and are wondering where to start, we have a few tips for you. First, take some time for yourself to figure out what it is that really turns you on.
Don’t shy away from the taboo stuff! Roleplaying should be a safe space where you and your partner can explore those kinds of fantasies freely and safely.
After you’ve decided on scenes you’d like to try, discuss them in detail with your partner. As with everything else in a relationship, communication is key.
This might not be your typical dinner date conversation, but take your time! It’s important to establish boundaries, consent, and even an aftercare routine.
Obviously, we’re all human, and we all have feelings. Roleplaying should be a practice that comes without judgment, but that doesn’t make it immune to some potential awkwardness.
Laughing is okay! Matter of fact, it can be a big help in relieving nervousness and insecurity. No need to get worked up about staying in character or even just trying to be sexy.
You might miss out on the magic of roleplaying if you cut out all the funny business.
Where can I watch roleplay and fantasy porn?
1) Best variety of roleplay porn: Adult Time
Adult Time has quickly become one of the top mega-sites around. Essentially the Netflix of porn, Adult Time has almost too much content.
Featuring full-length movies, single scenes, or series, Adult Time offers a little bit of everything, including almost every kind of fantasy porn.
You’ll get classic throwback porn films from Vivid, the punk cinema of Burning Angel, Wicked’s parodies, and dozens more.
Even Adult Time’s award-winning original content heavily focuses on fantasy and roleplaying content.
There’s the Black Mirror-inspired Future Darkly series for sci-fi fans. Girlsway is one of the only lesbian-focused fantasy sites, creating over the top 80s inspired gonzo scenes.
Adult Time also features an incredibly diverse range of performers. No matter what you look for in a performer you’ll find it here.
Adult Time is one of the best all around deals in porn.
2) Best alt roleplaying porn: Burning Angel
This site is completely dedicated to alternative style and tattooed models and was founded by performer Joanna Angel. Inside, you’ll find all the tattooed goths, punks, emos, and more bringing an alt twist to porn.
If you’re familiar with the major porn streaming service AdultTime, then you’ll be happy to know that it acquired the Burning Angel studio. That means your Burning Angel membership you’ll have access to all 55,000+ videos in the AdultTime library.
The Burning Angel site alone, however, is home to over 2000 videos and has been the recipient of multiple awards, including the 2020 winner for best action/thriller and best comedy sex scene.
This punk-rock porn purveyor offers over 70 categories and over 100 models and pornstars including the likes of Abella Danger, Bree Daniels, and more.
If you’ve been looking for true alt porn, what better place to look than the site that ushered in the movement!
3) Most romantic roleplaying porn: Bellesa
This one is for the porn connoisseurs who’ve been searching for roleplaying sex videos that looks…well, real! If the usual scripted sex scene just isn’t cutting it anymore, Bellesa Films is tailor-made for you.
The site’s original videos and full-length films are shot by women for women and focus on female pleasure. Get ready for a lot of steamy action with a much sweeter delivery.
Bellesa Films brings the tension and passion with every scene, leaving you sweaty and breathless after. The site boasts top categories such as female orgasms, couples, group sex, fingering, and ass play.
But for more specific videos (like fantasy roleplay sex) you’re better off searching by keyword. One visit to Bellesa, and you’ll never look back.
4) Best kink roleplaying porn: House of Taboo
House of Taboo is the king of all things kink, fetish, and fantasy porn. The site is a refreshing one in a surprising way. There are no options to filter via category, or model specs.
However, you can filter by recently uploaded, most popular, featured videos, and trending. What I love about this feature is that it really solidifies the site’s brand.
There are no separate categories or delineating filters because it is a kink/fetish site. That’s all the content you’ll get. If you need more guidance there’s also an advanced search bar for when you’re in the mood for a specific kink or fetish.
Along with creating great content and uploading regularly, they also offer a lifetime membership. I would recommend taking advantage of the three-day trial at 33 cents to test the waters and then just dive in.
If quality kink is your thing, and you’re tired of searching daily for the perfect videos to satisfy your hunger, House of Taboo is the place you should call home.
5) Best BDSM roleplaying porn: Kink.com
Adult roleplay porn lovers rejoice! This site will be your new go-to for all things sticky, fetish, and kink. This is the first of sites on the list to offer the option to filter by sexual orientation before you even enter the site, with the options to choose either straight, gay, or both.
As you might have assumed from the name, Kink.com specializes in videos with hardcore sex, kinks, and fetishes. It hosts content from 30+ popular studios, totaling over 12,000 videos on the site.
The most impressive thing about the videos, however, is that they all run at least 45 minutes long, with most running feature-length. It’s not normal to have that many videos available of that length if you think about it.
That almost doubles the number of videos since you’re probably not going to watch a full-length film every time you go on the site.
As well as providing an extensive library of content, Kink.com offers a cam site, VR site, and shop where you can purchase lingerie and toys ranging in value.
This is truly your one-stop-shop for all things kink and fetish.
6) Best parodies: Wicked Pictures
For nearly 30 years Wicked Pictures has been one of the biggest names in fantasy porn. While still active in retail, the company’s website is an incredible resource for fans.
Featuring over 5,500 scenes and 1,000 full movies, the sheer amount of content available is stunning.
Beyond its incredible original hardcore scenes, Wicked is one of the few porn sites with educational content with classes in everything from fellatio to BDSM for Beginners.
Just a note, this is different from the Wicked content found on Adult Time. This gives you complete access to Wicked’s online archive.
Wicked is an incredible deal, starting at just $19.99 for streaming.
7) Best intersectional roleplaying porn: PinkLabel.TV
PinkLabel has established itself as one of the heavy hitters in amateur roleplay porn videos. The site hosts over 50 different indie porn studios (including Erica Lust, Pink and White Productions, and many more).
PinkLabel’s communities are comprised of queer, trans, POC, seniors, and people with disabilities. The people behind it understand porn’s audience is vast.
PinkLabel makes a point showcasing underrepresented groups in the adult industry.
This ethical hosting site offers a premium membership featuring a curated collection of hundreds of titles, unlimited access to the films, and a permanent streaming library.
Memberships help support PinkLabel’s own featured independent directors and studios. So if you’re looking to whet your appetite with diverse high-quality porn made by everyone, PinkLabel is your best bet.
8) Best robot fetish roleplaying porn: Sci-Fi Dream Girls
We’re proud to include the only fembot site on this list: Sci-Fi Dream Girls. You might have seen this studio on bigger porn sites, but you ain’t seen nothin’ yet.
The site boasts over 35 videos and clips of android women all catering to your specific technological sexual proclivity.
These robotic babes deliver an interesting series of storylines that all tie together. The films feature such sci-fi classics as lesbian fembots, muscular fembots, real dolls, and even humans having sex with robots.
The site layout is a little outdated and hard to navigate, but the content is well worth the technological drudge.
9) Longest running roleplaying porn site focused on women: Sssh.com
Sssh.com is the longest running roleplay porn site for women and for good reason! Its films are ethically produced, sex positive, and put focus on female pleasure (not just male!).
The site’s original movies have also been the recipients of several prestigious film awards, so it seems like every feature in this site is a huge draw.
Although Sssh doesn’t allow non-members to browse the video selection offered, the slideshow on the homepage will give you an idea of what can be expected when you sign up for a membership.
Sssh’s exclusive original movies, performers, and erotic photo galleries have garnered enough attention to make this site too juicy to overlook.
10) Best high brow roleplaying porn: Sex Art
SexArt is unique in the sense that this site has so many avenues of exploration.
Not only does it host amazing full-length soft porn films, but SexArt also hosts live cam streams, chats, and a blog for people looking to up their knowledge of all things sexual. SexArt produces films that are sensual beyond belief and exclusive to this site.
Expect plot-heavy films, high-quality sets, and explosive on-screen chemistry. With multiple weekly updates in an already large collection of videos, you’ll never be without new content.
Signing up with only your email address will award you with daily updates and featured model bios and the ability to view three films for free!
Premium memberships grant you access to live cams, the blog, and the gallery images on the site.
11) Best VR roleplaying porn: Sex Babes VR
Sex Babes VR’s biggest selling point is the sheer number of up and coming performers it features and its growing category of POV roleplay porn. Every time you log on it feels like you’re discovering someone new.
It adds to the fantasy when it’s not someone famous. It helps make up for the generic plots of their otherwise incredibly hot scenes.
In particular, Sex Babes VR shine with their immersive camera angles. Memberships come with around 300 VR scenes with a new one added every week.
12) Best free roleplaying porn: YouPorn
YouPorn does really well at organizing its collection of fantasy role-play porn. You’ll have no trouble sorting through the site’s categories; you might even be pleasantly surprised at the variety of unique titles.
You have the option to view clips, full-length films, live cams, audio porn, and live sex on the sites. Enjoy access to hundreds of channels like “Broke Amateurs” and “Bratty Sis,” as well as the site’s familiar performers. All videos are uploaded in HD and are available to download.
YouPorn has definitely mastered the subtleties of delivering a great experience during each visit.
13) Digital Playground
Digital Playground is a no-brainer for work fantasy porn. With thousands of scenes ranging from today to the mid-90s, Digital Playground’s library is hard to beat.
If you’re into mainstream porn its mix of wild threesomes, lesbian scenes, and fantasy hookups is world-class. A new movie featuring five scenes is uploaded every month, along with multi-scene web series.
Few sites give you this many new and classic porn stars, from Adriana Chechik to Jesse Jane. The only downside is the incredible $20 extra per month it charges for downloads.
