Sex toy porn may just be a firestarter for defeating the orgasm or pleasure gap. As it turns out, sex ed failed to teach us a lot of things, including that vulva-owners won’t always climax from penetration alone and usually need clitoral stimulation. While the numbers vary from study to study, they all come to the same conclusion: people with vulvas orgasm less frequently than their penis-having counterparts. Read on to learn why vibrator porn may be the saving grace in all of this. (Or you can skip on to the next section, where we tell you where you can find the best sex toy porn on the internet).
What does vibrator porn have to do with this?
In a 2015 survey published by Indiana University, only 18% of the women surveyed reported the ability to reach climax from intercourse (penetration) alone. 82% said they needed direct clitoral stimulation. This is compared to 95% of male respondents who said that they routinely reach climax from intercourse alone. This striking inequality has created such a massive gap between the sexes that it is now being referred to as “the orgasm gap“. This gap seems to pertain to heteronormative couples only. An AutoStraddle survey reported 77.8% of lesbian women reach orgasm during sex. 36.8% orgasm at least once during sex and 20.6% orgasm multiple times.”
Before you throw your hands up in defeat, there is a silver lining. Sex toys are here to help you and your partner leap over the hetero-orgasm chasm! (Rhyming intended). As long as you both approach incorporating toys with an open mind, you and your partner will have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Remember, adding toys is almost always a conversation
If your partner is resistant to introduce sex toys or if you feel apprehensive to propose the change, just know you’re not alone. One of the main reasons why people feel hesitant to bring toys into the bedroom is because they’re worried about the message it will send.
In an interview with The Guardian, sex therapist Ian Kerner said that it’s a fairly common occurrence for cismen to feel threatened by vibrators. While there aren’t any hard numbers that back up this claim, licensed marriage, and family therapist and relationship expert, Dr. Kat Van Kirk, provides an explanation. He says that “the idea that using a sex toy means your partner isn’t a good enough lover is one of the most common misconceptions people have about sex toys. One partner may also fear that another partner’s use of a sex toy will replace them. Or that they’ll become overly reliant on them for arousal and/or orgasm.”
But if you aren’t reaching a climax with your partner, you shouldn’t feel worried about how they will take it. After all, sex should be something enjoyed by all parties involved. If your partner is going to let a little ego get in the way of your pleasure, that’s a bigger discussion. So maybe normalize this sentiment by streaming some good ol’ fashioned sex toy porn together?
Listed below are the best adult sites for watching dildos and vibrators amplify someone’s sexual experience.
Best sex toy porn sites
Adult Time
Adult Time is basically the Netflix of vibrator porn. With a robust list of over 200 channels, 50,000 episodes, daily uploads and updates, and over 30 awards won in 2020 alone, Adult Time snags the coveted “ultimate subscription platform” award from us.
Expect to find fantastic, award-winning original content, as well as popular titles from studios like Vixen, xConfessions, FemJoy, and more. Want to spice it up? There’s a category for that. Want to slow it down to something a bit softer? There’s also a category for that. The possibilities are endless and so are the films! Best of all, Adult Time offers interactive videos that sync up with your favorite Bluetooth toys.
Bellesa Films
This one is for the porn connoisseurs who’ve been searching for dildo porn that looks…well, genuine! If the usual scripted sex scene just isn’t cutting it anymore, Bellesa Films is tailor-made for you. The site’s original videos and full-length films are shot by women for women and focus on female pleasure. Get ready for a lot of steamy action with a much sweeter delivery. No more obviously fake O’s or foreplay that makes you cringe.
Bellesa Films brings tension and passion with every scene, leaving you sweaty and breathless after. The site boasts top categories such as female orgasms, couples, group sex, fingering, and ass play. But for more specific videos (like fantasy roleplay sex) you’re better off searching by keyword. One visit to Bellesa, and you’ll never look back.
Lustery
Lustery is one of the only sites on this list that hosts real, couple-submitted amateur sex toy porn. I know what you’re thinking: “I don’t want to spend hours searching through poorly lit, shaky camera videos.” Don’t worry. While couples do film their own videos, they’re all in HD and most have surprisingly great camera work.
The real upside to this site is getting to see real couples at work in their own environment. These videos are all so unique in the sense that there’s no set, no film crew, and tons of personality. These real-life couples have an intimacy on screen that no standard porn site has been able to imitate.
Perks to being a member are….well, everything! Membership gets you access to the videos, couple bios, your own personalized hub, and the ability to submit your own videos and join the couples club. The site presents itself like no other porn site, with a fresh color palette, sweet font, and easy to navigate tabs that will leave no video unturned. For the porn watcher who’s been searching for the most real of the real, or simply looking for completely different videos, Lustery is a must.
xConfessions
Created by the boss director in porn herself, Erika Lust, this site is everything dildo porn should be. A membership includes full access to all the content on the site, as well as the ability to anonymously post your own fantasies to an online wall with the lucky chance Erika herself will develop it into an erotic short film.
Other membership perks include access to all anonymously posted confessions, unlimited streaming of over 150 films, and 10 free downloads per month. If you’ve been searching for quality films that showcase women’s pleasure in a sex-positive and sexually intelligent narrative created from relatable fantasies, look no further.
Couples Cinema
Introducing sex toy porn into your relationship can be difficult. Couple Cinema takes the stress out by curating content from today’s top porn auteurs at a low price.
The difference between erotica and porn is often just pretension and intention. Take the artists making sex toy porn at Couples Cinema. Produced by the top indie directors of adult cinema, all the content on Couples Cinema puts eroticism first. You can expect to see thoughtful camera angles and compelling emotional stories along with your orgies and cumshots.
This budget-priced site offers hundreds of films from a wide range of filmmakers. We suggest couples start with the aptly named Couple Fantasies films. They have the hottest performers, and their commitment to storytelling adds a relatable spark for new porn fans.
PinkLabel.TV
PinkLabel has established itself as one of the heavy hitters in queer sex toy porn. Founded by Shine Louise Houston, PinkLabel hosts over 50 different indie porn studios (including Erica Lust, Pink and White Productions, and many more). Comprised of queer, trans, POC, seniors, and actors with disabilities, PinkLabel clearly understands porn markets go beyond the stereotypes. PinkLabel’s effort to include largely underrepresented groups in the adult film industry mustn’t be overlooked.
This ethical porn site is free to peruse but to access the content you’ll need to become a member. The premium membership includes a curated collection of hundreds of titles, unlimited access, and a permanent streaming library. All memberships help support PinkLabel’s own featured independent directors and studios. Want to whet your appetite with various high-quality and diverse films made by and for the communities they feature? PinkLabel is the solution.
CrashPadSeries
Also from Shine Houston comes the CrashPadSeries, based on Houston’s cult classic original film The Crash Pad. This series follows the original plot and builds on it. All of the episodes are based in the same San Francisco apartment that hosts queer sex events, but all the themes are different. In my opinion, the best feature of this site is its abundant content.
In terms of diversity and real sex, you can’t do better than the Crash Pad series. The models are natural beauties in all shapes and sizes from all backgrounds, sexual identities, orientations, races, and the toys they use. There are over 300 episodes in the series and each episode contains its own behind the scenes footage. Members also have access to the library of feature-length films, including the original CrashPad movie that inspired the series.
In an unprecedented move, CrashPadSeries features a “hide” toggle. So before you go sifting through all the glorious porn, you can choose to filter and hide videos that contain scenes with ejaculation, consensual rough sex (including choking, flogging, spitting, slapping, etc.), fisting, BDSM, anal play (anal penetration, rimming, butt plugs, etc.), strap-ons and wearable vibrators.
Sssh
Sssh.com shares vibrator orgasm porn with a twist! Its films are ethically produced, sex-positive, and put the focus on female pleasure. The site’s original movies have also been the recipients of several prestigious film awards. It seems like every feature on this site is a huge draw.
Although Sssh doesn’t allow non-members to browse the video selection offered, the slideshow on the homepage will give you an idea of what can be expected. Sssh’s exclusive original movies, performers, and erotic photo galleries have garnered enough attention to make this site too juicy to overlook.
Kink.com
Hitachi porn lovers rejoice! This site will be your new go-to for all things sticky, fetish, and kink. Why? Well, it has a whole lot of everything. The options to choose either straight, gay (which brings you to KinkMen), or both before you even enter the site makes browsing for what you want a breeze.
As you might have assumed from the name, Kink.com specializes in videos with hardcore sex, kinks, and fetishes. It hosts content from 30+ popular studios, totaling over 12,000 videos on the site. The most impressive thing about the videos is that they all run at least 45 minutes long. Most of them run at full feature-length. Kink is practically Hollywood gone BDSM!
Kink also offers VR, allowing you to truly engross yourself in the experience. Users can also purchase lingerie and toys of all different values directly through the Kink store. This is truly your one-stop-shop for all things kink and XXX parody!
Cinema Joy
Cinema Joy is for anyone who enjoys rabbit vibrator porn centered around female pleasure. Founded by another boss, Petra Joy (the recipient of over five major awards, including the Feminist Porn Award, the Trans Award, and the Cinekink Award), the site also boasts a cast of all-female directors. You won’t see a category menu on the site, but there is an advanced search bar if you have a particular type of film in mind.
When searching “lesbian,” premium scenes from notable films like Snapshot, Strap on Motel, and CrashPad: Guide to Fisting populate alongside feature-length lesbian films. If being able to view all of Petra’s content isn’t enough of a draw for you, the rest of the erotic, female-oriented porn should do it.
What’s included is truly a filthy sight to behold. Sadly this once mighty website rarely gets updated anymore. For example, it only added five movies in 2019. However, the back catalog includes over 100 exclusive scenes and blisteringly erotic curated content.
FemDom Empire
If you’re looking for femdom vibrator porn videos, this is most definitely the site for you. FemDom Empire makes the list because of its stunning variety of fetishes and kinks. From a human ashtray to bodybag, oral servitude, and of course, edging and orgasm denial, this website has it all. Featuring award-winning performers and dommes like fan-favorite Riley Reid, Adriana Chechik, and Ariana Marie, you can be sure that FemDom will deliver on quality. Forget scouring the web for four-minute clips of your desired kink and subscribe to FemDom now!
Deeper
At first glance, you get the impression that Deeper is not here to just play around with dildo porn (you know what we mean). The homepage greets you with a huge banner promoting the newest film out on the site, with featured and latest videos underneath so you can stay up to date and enjoy the freshest content, always.
The models on the site are drop-dead gorgeous, hail from various races, and are all filmed in 4K HD. On top of being professionally shot and having extremely curated content, the site has been the recipient of two directing awards. If you’re looking for top-notch porn with “deeper” storylines, catering to all proclivities and fantasies, this is definitely the site for you.
Ersties
Ersties is an inclusive sex toy porn site created by performer, pornographer, and filmmaker Paulita Pappel. The Berlin-based porn enthusiast grew up wanting to become a porn star. And her love for the adult film industry is clearly evident in her work. However, that has not come without its critiques.
This is why she’s dedicated her career to turning the industry into a safe and enjoyable space for women. “Porn is not wrong,” she said in an interview with Business Insider. “But the means of production can be completely wrong.” This is the reason why every film produced for Ersties is shot and directed by female film students and photographers.
Ersties soars above the competition through its unique take on a rising phenomenon. From the playfully cute site design to its captivating volunteer amateur performers, Ersties oozes spontaneous, unscripted brilliance. There’s nothing to not love about this site.
Sweet Sinner
While the elegance of Sweet Sinner doesn’t compare to some of the other sites on this list, its content makes up for it. Headed by Jacky St. James, an actress turned director sensation, the site features 1,000+ videos and 250 award-winning films. What Sweet Sinner exceeds at is producing great movies with relatable plots.
If you’ve fantasized about it, it’s probably been shot. Films like “Catfished 2” and “The Girls Next Door” are very popular within the site. If you’re not in the mood to watch a whole feature-length film, hot scenes from each are available to view instead. This site will definitely feed your sweet tooth!
Naughty Natural
Naughty Natural is all about that body hair and rabbit vibrator porn. With mostly woman-on-woman and solo videos of hairy women (plus some man-on-woman), this website is the one-stop-shop for people interested in the kind of body representation you won’t even find a category for within mainstream porn circles. Membership (which is $25 a month) comes with over 400 HD videos you can download, thousands of photos, and hours of behind-the-scenes footage.
Wicked Pictures
For nearly 30 years Wicked Pictures has been one of the biggest names in vibrator porn. While still active in retail, the company’s website is an incredible resource for fans. Featuring over 5,500 scenes and 1,000 full movies, the sheer amount of content available is stunning. Beyond its incredible original hardcore scenes, Wicked is one of the few porn sites with educational content with classes in everything from fellatio to BDSM for Beginners. Wicked is an incredible deal, starting at just $19.99 for streaming.
Vivid
Vivid is one of the most unique sites on this list, as it has been around for some time (since 1984) and specializes in celebrity sex tapes and dildo porn. The site has over 90 celeb tapes, including the infamous Kim Kardashian and Ray J sex tape, Farrah Abraham’s adult video collection, and many others. The homepage opens up to a slideshow banner advertising top celeb tapes, followed by organized categories like “Top Celebs,” “Top Rated Videos,” latest videos, trending videos, and live cam girls.
What we love about this site is its ever-growing library of content. Since it has been around for so long its videos differ in quality depending on the year filmed, but most of the site’s videos from its inception are still available for your viewing pleasure.
On top of having a library spanning more than two decades, the site offers many bonus features, such as its live cam network, and dating website, VividHookups. As a member, you can expect full access to its network of sites, 90+ celebrity videos, the archive library of content, its cam network, and the entire stockpile of photos.
Burning Angel
This site is completely dedicated to alternative styles and tattooed models and was founded by performer Joanna Angel. Inside, you’ll find all the tattooed goths, punks, emos, skaters, and more participating in all the vibrator sex videos you could imagine. If you’re familiar with the major porn streaming service AdultTime, then you’ll be happy to know that it acquired the Burning Angel studio, so along with your Burning Angel membership, you’ll have access to all 55,000+ videos in the AdultTime library.
The Burning Angel site alone is home to over 2000 videos and has been the recipient of multiple awards, including the 2020 winner for best action/thriller and best comedy sex scene. It also offers over 70 categories and over 100 models and pornstars including the likes of Abella Danger, Bree Daniels, and more. If you’ve been looking for true alt porn, what better place to look than the site that ushered in the movement!
House of Taboo
House of Taboo is all things kink and fetish, including vibrator torture porn. The site is uber refreshing (in a surprising way). There are no options to filter via category or model specs; however, you can filter by recently uploaded, most popular, featured videos, and trending. What I love about this feature is that it really solidifies the site’s brand. There are no separate categories or delineating filters because it is a kink/fetish site–that’s all the content you’ll get!
For those that might be a little less excited about that than I am, it warrants mentioning that there is an advanced search bar if you’re really in the mood for watching a specific kink or fetish. Because this site is so great at its craft, and uploads happen quite frequently.
House of Taboo is also one of the only sites to offer a lifetime membership. If you want to play it safe, I recommend taking advantage of the 3-day trial at 33 cents per day. This way you can determine if this is the site for you without going broke. But if quality kink is your thing, House of Taboo is for you.
Reality Kings
Reality Kings has become a household name in online porn for years. And the multitude of videos showing girls vibrator orgasm porn certainly lives up to the hype. With over 20,000 videos, RK has got some of the best adult content on the web. The homepage is organized by three generalizations: Viral Scenes, New Porn, and Top Rated. It also showcases the most recently active models. (Just in case you’re one of those people who needs to stay up-to-date on who’s producing what).
Another great feature of the site is the ability to see how many videos are included in each category. So if the options aren’t vast enough you can easily browse elsewhere. Users can also preview each video with a rollover thumbnail gallery. And of course, take advantage of the site’s advanced search bar to get exactly what they’re looking for (and then some). When it comes to porn, Reality Kings nails it every time.
Brazzers
If you know Brazzers, you know the site’s unofficial motto is “go big or go home,” so obviously it went hard on the sex toy porn. When you enter the site’s main page you’re greeted with banners of spotlight models and videos. All of these are organized by the most recent additions to the oldest, what’s popular this week, and upcoming videos.
Some of the best features on this site are the “watch later” tab in the home bar, the promo tab for great deals on other websites you may not know exist. As well as the abundance of categories offered. All the models on site are exactly as described, too. So you’ll have a near-exact idea of what to expect before you even press play.
