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How To Get Out Of “Performance Mode” In The Bedroom
“Often originating from a desire to please our partners over staying true to ourselves, performance mode detracts from good sex and prevents honest connection.”
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In Defense of Misandry: Having Sex With Men Made Me Hate Men
“When we consider that in the US, almost three women are killed by an intimate partner every day, it’s baffling that women have enough faith in men to go anywhere near them in a sexual setting.”
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Life After Sex Work: My Nudes Are Everywhere. Now What?
“The industry fundamentally changed the way I valued myself. It made me beholden to income in ways non-sexual work didn’t. I, and society, attached a monetary value to my appearance.”
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Do You Really Have A Praise Kink?
“This misunderstood kink is about more than just compliments.”
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You’re My Idol: K-pop Erotica Was My Gateway to Online Smut
“Where there’s vanilla romance, there’s the smuttiest smut lying just below the surface. Even 50 Shades of Grey started as Twilight fan fiction.”
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Looks Good For Her Age: Aging In (and Out) Of Sex Work
“Being okay with that means moving into a different phase in our life. We no longer have to pick out our outfits to go grocery shopping. We’re no longer on display. It’s freeing, a sheer relief to blend in after spending so many years knowing we didn’t.”
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Why Do People Cheat?
“Certain people mistake sexual gratification for love, because they lack a genuine capacity for intimacy due to their immaturity of character.”
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Hot Girl Summer? Cuffing Season? Female Sexuality Is Expected To Be Seasonal (And That Only Benefits The Patriarchy)
“Hot girl summer” involves embarking on a string of no-strings-attached sexual ventures which allow female-identifying people to clock up as many bodies as they can, preferably in as little clothing as possible. After all, nothing says summer like a sweaty shag with a stranger.
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From centerfolds to cellphones: The rise of the male thirst trap
“For those making the content, thirst traps can either be a way of expressing sexuality, a form of exhibitionism, or a way to seek validation.”
